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A Sense of Mystery
Maintaining a sense of mystery within a relationship is about as imperative as using deodorant on a daily basis. Particularly as you...
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The Two Sides of Sex
Let’s talk about sex. But not in the salacious way. In fact I want to try and bring a pragmatism to thinking about sex. This could be an...
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Dating Realities Vs. Dating Fantasies
Okay when I tell you that you need to let rationality have a seat at the table when it comes to the early stages of dating, what I failed...
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How to get a man to commit
In a world of ambiguity and a zillion boxes to tick between a first date and the status change defined by commitment, what does it really...
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How to Ruin your Relationship
Generally speaking I try to refrain from being inspired by negativity, but hey, we can’t help how creativity comes to us. Here’s the...
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Giving Great Head: A Guide for Women
Fellatio, blow jobs, sucking dick and giving head are all terms we regularly throw around, but in spite of the colloquial familiarity the...
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Giving Great Head: A Guide for Men
Cunnilingus, eating pussy, giving head and eating out are all terms we regularly throw around, but in spite of the colloquial familiarity...
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The Rose & The Gardener
In all relationships there is A Rose and there is A Gardener. Two distinguishable roles that each become half of the partnership. These...
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Beige = Boring
“The new girl is obviously a perfectly, perfect beige girl who looks like she goes to yoga, like consistently, has manicured frosted baby...
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Flirting with Intent
Defining the morals of us fickle human beings is a near impossible feat that slides between slippery and subjective. It seems that we...
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Threesomes: Retro Fantasy vs. Reality
Not long ago on an afternoon walk with a friend I was hypothesizing about why the guy I was seeing wanted one of my friends around so...
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Don’t forget scent
On the ragged path of seduction we often forget the power of scent. It’s not a surprise that the elusive olfactory senses get neglected...
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Truths men should (already) know
(About being in a relationship) By saying ‘should know’ it may seem that I’m referring to facts that are strictly unknown or...
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Gender Sorcery
Bare with me because shit is about to get gnarly and understanding this concept might mean re-reading sentences. I’ve broken this topic...
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The Great Age Debate
Men and women have long been embroiled in a mental tug of war around relationship age gaps and whether the years between two lovers...
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Fifty percent
The more I write and think about relationships the more I develop a formulaic understanding of it. Anecdotes become more relevant and...
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How to: Break up with the man NOT of your dreams
Here's the scenario. It's the end of the season (summer/festive/hunting) and instead of picking up some designer jeans on sale you’re...
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The Talk
FACT: A significant portion of women’s time is absorbed by trying to process, analyse and debunk common myths about men. Women spend an...
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